how do you settle conflicts in your life?

I settle conflicts in my life by confronting them. I never give up on whatever it is I’m dealing with. I clear my mind and I think of other solutions for a problem. I always have a back-up plan if my first solution fails , and im very stubborn so I always seem to get things done. sometimes when  I come upon a conflict I know I wont be able to handle , like if someone stole my phone, then I would settle it with violence because that’s like taking a piece of me away from me, so yeah when it comes to situations like that, I know I would lose it.